Trip to Florida (Foreward)

My three year old is an activist. He believes in the power of boycotts and he has a long list of things he feels passionate about avoiding for his cause:

1. Putting on clothes.

2. Getting in the car

3. Getting out of the car.

4. Having his fingernails or toenails cut (even though I inform him that people actually pay money for this service).

5. Having any kind of lotion on any part of his body-especially his face.

6. Pooping anywhere besides his own sanctioned potty.

7. Sleeping anywhere besides his own bed with his own sheets and his three bunnies.

Because of his strong beliefs, it makes it difficult to travel. Yet a few months ago, I decided to plan a trip to Florida to see my family. Going on the trip involved one 5 hour flight, an hour layover, another 2 hour flight and a 3 hour time change. What was I thinking?

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